There are so abounding teams that go bossing and FCs that are fabricated for them. AoD - you can go with your friends, with AoD247 or Nex AoD (say what you would of the FCs but they're constant hours with easy-to-make teams, I've got a shitton of KC with them), or even the accumulation FC 'NexAoD' to apprentice mechanics/soulsplit flicking/surging/etc. Solak - Solak247 (or w/e it's called), and allegedly others out there. Rago has Rago PvM and Bang-up Academy (which does both NM and HM).

For raids you accept Bang-up School, and Arrest FC*. For Nex there were a brace animosity servers (sorry can't bethink the name off-hand but I'm abiding you can acquisition that with some googling). And afresh you accept clans: Bomb Tanks (or Cursed Combatants as it was ahead known), Dark Bow DPS, Solak, and absolutely a lot added 'teaching' chic out there that all try to advise one or added administration to humans in a airy ambiance (because this is a blood-soaked bold not a high-stress job).

Now to get to your column - I'll accept one point, pvming with accurate randoms isn't great. If you were to accomplish a accidental aggregation at prif and go to AoD or raids and NOT apprehend toxicity, I'd beam at this point because I accede it's affectionate of accustomed amidst the high-level pvm community.

But you should apprentice to differentiate amid badinage and toxicity (took me continued abundant to do that anyway). There are SO abounding humans arena the bold who like pvming, are acceptable at it, and aren't baneful and they accept to acquisition anniversary added able-bodied abundant anyhow (banter aside, because banter's just for memes).

I'll column replies to specific locations of your post:

# The teams that are appropriate and non-toxic don't even abide from the hundreds of teams I went through.

Really, 'hundreds of teams' - I acquisition it harder to accept that (a) you in actuality approved out in actuality hundreds of teams, and (b) not one aggregation had a aggregation affiliate added than you who didn't blaze everyone, who you could accept become accompany with?

Hell even in Arrest FC, accepted for its baneful raids and sometimes nicknamed 'aids' fc, I've had some ambrosial acceptable raids (like a sub 3 bm and sub 7 yaka with randoms there, that's ambrosial acceptable for the aught accomplishment that aggregation appropriate to make).

# Raids is basically absurd for me to acquisition a team, so I accept to use the raids fc which is a actual baneful abode in itself.

Fair abundant that abode is backward about KC accepting an indicator of adequacy (which for raids, doesn't in actuality aggregate above the aboriginal few because by afresh you're accomplishing about as abundant dps as the boilerplate guy in there). But like I said, teaching clans/FCs/your acquaintance annual can be the way to get the antecedent kc/experience. And if all abroad fails, go and host your own aggregation in there, afresh you don't accept to anguish about kc.

# It got to a point area I'm too afraid to ask basal questions about the mechanics because humans will instantly accept I'm a noob that can't pvm.

Some humans will yeah, because you're accepted to accept some abstraction of mechanics afore the action even begins by annual guides/watching videos/asking accompany beforehand. That said, if you accept done that, a lot of humans will not bang you for allurement a simple catechism (past experience).

# I've never even gotten into Solak or Vorago hardmode because I apperceive that teams there are just as toxic, so I gave up on my continued appellation rs ambition of commutual all bead logs and accepting the final bang-up titles.

Ok fair I don't get to animadversion actuality because I'm debris at Solak and I alone accept a brace dozen HM kc my accompany about agitated me to (Bomb tanks and bang-up academy bedrock though!)

I anticipate if you just plan on your own dps (solid rotations at dummies, 150k+ dps in all styles at the minimum, 170k+ ideally) and go through some of the places both I and all the added comments accept appropriate here, you'll be able to acquisition some friends/teams to do those bosses.

Tl;dr put accomplishment but aswell go to the appropriate places to acquisition teams.

*This is the alone one I'd accept is toxic. And that's because yes (a) humans will not yield roles, and (b) humans ambition aboriginal attack successes which isn't absurd but ablaze occurs, if you use the fc, you can consistently avoid that. By the way, Runescape for Gold buy at MMOGO.com!